Family

Assalamualaikum and hai….

Fuhhh its already 4 months that I almost forget about my blog…..really miss it but it’s a lot things that I need to adjust my time and my life after return back from my umrah…….thousand of thinking that sometimes make me stuck…..don’t know where and how to start…after my umrah journey….I really want to start all over again and do my best….especially being a mother and a wife….thinking how such a small and ordinary person like me can do all this…..everyone have their role….we all grow up with the weight of history on us….I never want to let it go because it’s what make me…today as a person……

It’s so clear that my family it’s my strength…and I’m so certain that Allah will always by my side….

“When you look at your life, the greatest happiness is family happiness” Joyce Brothers

Picture of my family and my greatest precious….taken last hari raya…..I’m so happy and really hope that it will lasting forever……but….we also fight and argue…..we also stress but I always talk to myself no pain no gain……family is only things that I have……and will be around with me forever…..

Durian

Durian is one of my favorite fruit especially durian kampong. Now the season is coming and me and family really enjoy eating durian either we buy it or import from my husband kampong. My husband aunty only have about 5 trees at the back of their house, not a big dusun but I really enjoy eating durian under cherry tree together with my family.

Since my husband is a busy man we must make a time to go back to kampong just to eat durian. It’s only take a day to me to enjoy eating durian and brings back to Kajang.

I can eat durian at the morning, afternoon and even at night before sleep..hehhhehe
I like the one which is sweet, taste like milk and not so thick. Its 5 of us but only my son doesn’t really bother about eating durian..He will say….yakssss when you offer to him……

Anyway for me durian is something special fruit and it’s very enjoyable when you eat durian at dusun with kampong environment together with your family…

Parenting

Being a mother of qistina, wafiq and maisarah gives me a zillion of precious experience and memories. After 9 years in parenting job, seem like it will never give u a break not even a minute!.......

This experience is not about me become a good mother or not. All mothers in the earth try very hard to become a superb mother as they want to be. As human beings me myself accept I’m not perfect…....we not perfect …we angry, cry, sad, disappointed and most of the time I always feel lazyyyyy……..ahakssss

Being a mother is all about responsibility, compassion and respect. Personally for me it change me a lot, they teach my how to be patience. Patience at most of the time, when they don’t want to get bath, tidy their room, when they don’t want put all their toys at the place as it should be, don’t want to do their homework, watching TV all the time, playing computer games, Nintendo games, ask them to solat and even eat the right food…..quarrel when there is a battle instead for being compromise……….they love to fight to get what they want.

I believe all the parents in this world face the same thing, for me at any circumstances that every mother face through the entire journey first at for most we must be happy first even we have a problem at our office, sibling, friend and others.

For 9 years and I’m still happy doing it, me and my husband doing all the job as early at 5.00 a.m until 10.00 p.m…….its really challenging when you don’t have any helper but at the end of the day you will satisfied with all the jobs. Every one of us have only 24 hours, we get the same portion it’s just a matter how to used the time wisely.

Doing the housework is easy but to raise the children is a life time commitment even after death….it still will be question…sometimes at this point quality does matter rather than quantity.

Regardless what ever the challenge we face in raising them, they such an adorable to be with, cuddle them and be in their world will fade all your bad time for a day….

Activities at Bagan Lalang

Yesterday is my husband's birthday and so sudden my husband ask me if we just visit Bagan Lalang...without prepare anything, i just bring extra clothes for the kids. Suprisingly for the first time went to Bagan Lalang its a lot of people..mmm ingat tak glamer tempat ni......My Kids luv there..a lot of activities that u can do such as a playing kite, drive a troop(ye kot), beach, camping, eating.....

Me personally really have a good time there...its a small and nice place....